What’s it about LOVE that people end up hurting themselves yet wanting to love again?

            I am not a love doctor with a Ph.D in Romance Physics nor a graduate of M.A in Relationship Chemistry, but I can tell you the answer.

            I’ve been writing several things about love for so many years now. I actually started when I as in high school, when all the fresh mushy feelings about having crushes, infatuations, puppy love, and first love happened. In this phase, you have no idea how it feels, but then the curiosity kills you that you keep on telling yourself that you should try.

            Reading articles and books about love, how people experience it and how they get through it gives me the idea of writing a book about what I know in love. I may be as young as 21 years old, though not experienced enough about love, I know I can describe how happy and painful it can get at times. I’ve written so many stories, articles, and blogs about love, yet I am not satisfied with what I have shared through the people who have read my works online.

            Love stories, movies, and other write-ups tells the secret recipes in love, but what’s really about this so-called LOVE that even though people end up hurting themselves still want to love again?

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You’re in the Friend Zone if he/she is…

Never calls you first

You’re always the first to call, text, or email, whether it’s just to say hi or to make plans to hang out? Unless this person is extremely shy, if he rarely or never makes the first move, it’s highly likely he considers you just a friend. He may like you, but he’s not going out of his way to keep in touch.

Always Hanging Out In A Group

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‘I love you’ means that I accept you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you when you’re in a bad mood or too tired to do things I want to do. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with. I love you means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, hoping you feel the same way for me.

Di ka niya naaappreciate pero todo effort ka pa rin. Bakit? Mahal mo eh. Kaya kahit sinasaktan mo sarili mo sa ginagawa mo, nababalewala ka man niya, OK LANG sayo. Basta alam mo, masaya ka sa kanya kahit nasasaktan ka.

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Kakauwi ko lang… hihi. #instadaily #instapics #potd #gpoy #me fierce in red lips..

I want a boy who will move the hair away from my eyes, and then kiss me. Who will hold my hand in line at the mall and make all the girls jealous, a boy who will sing to me at random moments and who lets me sleep on his chest. I want a guy who will tell his family and friends all about me. Bring me soup or orange juice when I’m sick. I want a boy who is more goofy than romantic, but knows the right things to say at the right times. I want a boy who will call me 3 times a day if he went away. A boy who will apologize for calling too much, and no matter how many times I tell him its okay, he’d still do it. A boy who will let me gossip to him and just smile and agree with everything I say. A boy who will throw stuffed animals at me when I acted dumb and then jump on me and kiss me a million times. Who will bet kisses on who could beat who on at game, which makes fun of me just to make me laugh? A boy who will surprise me with 25 cent ring and we could have contest of how far we can spit our gum. Who will take me to the park, put his hands around my waist and give me big bear hugs all the time, a boy who will kiss my neck just to have a reason to tell me how much he loves my new perfume. I want a boy who, at night, who will dance in his pajamas with me. A boy who will take pictures in photo booths with me, someone who will never turn down a trip to the lake and who will play tag on the beach with me, a boy who could sit with me on the kitchen floor and eat sandwiches, who will kiss me in the pouring rain. I want a boy who would try to teach me how to play the guitar, even if we just end up laughing at each other. I want a boy who will run his fingers through my hair, share his lollipops with me, and get along with all of my friends. Someone who would never be afraid to say I love you in front of his friends and someone who would argue with me about silly things just to make up. I want a boy who will take me to target to just make fun of some of the stuff there. Someone who will kiss me atmidnight on new years and who will make funny faces at me when I’m on the phone. I want a boy who will count stars with me and be friends with my family. I want a boy who will stay home with me on a Friday night just to help me make dinner and watch movies together under the same blanket. Someone who will squirt water guns at me in the house after I’ve got him soaked. I want a boy who looks me the eye and tell me something serious, that was also funny and make me promise not to laugh. A boy who could make me laugh like no one else can. I want a boy who will hold me closer than normal when I’m sick, and would play with my hair.

But, mostly I want a boy who is my best friend and will always be there for me. I want a boy who is a man, like you ♥